Since commit 044c99bc, eqjoinsel passes the passed-in collation
to any operators it invokes.  However, neqjoinsel failed to pass
on whatever collation it got, so that if we invoked a
collation-dependent operator via that code path, we'd get "could not
determine which collation to use for string comparison" or the like.

Per report from Justin Pryzby.  Back-patch to v12, like the previous
commit.

Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/20200721191606.GL5748@telsasoft.com