When a backend runs out of inner tuples to hash, it should detach from
grow_batch_barrier only after it has flushed all batches to disk and
merged counters, not before.  Otherwise a concurrent backend in
ExecParallelHashIncreaseNumBatches() could stop waiting for this
backend and try to read tuples before they have been written.  This
commit reorders those operations and should fix the assertion failures
seen occasionally on the build farm since commit
18042840.

Author: Thomas Munro
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/E1eRwXy-0004IK-TO%40gemulon.postgresql.org