This expands the binary validation in pg_upgrade with a version
check per binary to ensure that the target cluster installation
only contains binaries from the target version.

In order to reduce duplication, validate_exec is exported from
port.h and the local copy in pg_upgrade is removed.

Author: Daniel Gustafsson <daniel@yesql.se>
Discussion: https://www.postgresql.org/message-id/flat/9328.1552952117@sss.pgh.pa.us