Commit b9c130a1 failed to apply the publisher-to-subscriber column
mapping while checking which columns were updated.  Perhaps less
significantly, it didn't exclude dropped columns either.  This could
result in an incorrect updated-columns bitmap and thus wrong decisions
about whether to fire column-specific triggers on the subscriber while
applying updates.  In HEAD (since commit 9de77b54), it could also
result in accesses off the end of the colstatus array, as detected by
buildfarm member skink.  Fix the logic, and adjust 003_constraints.pl
so that the problem is exposed in unpatched code.

In HEAD, also add some assertions to check that we don't access off
the ends of these newly variable-sized arrays.

Back-patch to v10, as b9c130a1 was.

Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/CAH2-Wz=79hKQ4++c5A060RYbjTHgiYTHz=fw6mptCtgghH2gJA@mail.gmail.com