Avoid repeatedly calling lseek(SEEK_END) during recovery by caching
the size of each fork.  For now, we can't use the same technique in
other processes, because we lack a shared invalidation mechanism.

Do this by generalizing the pre-existing caching used by FSM and VM
to support all forks.

Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/CAEepm%3D3SSw-Ty1DFcK%3D1rU-K6GSzYzfdD4d%2BZwapdN7dTa6%3DnQ%40mail.gmail.com