Reporting only the stderr is unhelpful when the problem is that the
server output we're getting doesn't match what was expected.  So we
should report the query output too; and just for good measure, let's
print the query we used and the output we expected.

Back-patch to 9.5 where poll_query_until was introduced.

Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/17913.1539634756@sss.pgh.pa.us