Commit 9f06d79e's replication slot copying failed to
properly reserve the WAL that the slot is expecting to see
during DecodingContextFindStartpoint (to set the confirmed_flush
LSN), so concurrent activity could remove that WAL and cause the
copy process to error out.  But it doesn't actually *need* that
WAL anyway: instead of running decode to find confirmed_flush, it
can be copied from the source slot. Fix this by rearranging things
to avoid DecodingContextFindStartpoint() (leaving the target slot's
confirmed_flush_lsn to invalid), and set that up afterwards by copying
from the target slot's value.

Also ensure the source slot's confirmed_flush_lsn is valid.

Reported-by: Arseny Sher
Author: Masahiko Sawada, Arseny Sher
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/871rr3ohbo.fsf@ars-thinkpad