The wait event related code is independent from the rest of the
pgstat.[ch] code, of nontrivial size and changes on a regular
basis. Put it into its own set of files.

As there doesn't seem to be a good pre-existing directory for code
like this, add src/backend/utils/activity.
Reviewed-By: Robert Haas <robertmhaas@gmail.com>
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/20210316195440.twxmlov24rr2nxrg@alap3.anarazel.de