This adds the statistics about transactions spilled to disk from
ReorderBuffer.  Users can query the pg_stat_replication view to check
these stats.

Author: Tomas Vondra, with bug-fixes and minor changes by Dilip Kumar
Reviewed-by: Amit Kapila
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/688b0b7f-2f6c-d827-c27b-216a8e3ea700@2ndquadrant.com