Remove the hard-wired assumption that __mips__ (and only __mips__) lacks
dlopen in FreeBSD and OpenBSD.  This assumption is outdated at least for
OpenBSD, as per report from an anonymous 9.1 tester.  We can perfectly well
use HAVE_DLOPEN instead to decide which code to use.

Some other cosmetic adjustments to make freebsd.c, netbsd.c, and openbsd.c
exactly alike.