We've long had reports of intermittent "could not reattach to shared
memory" errors on Windows.  Buildfarm member dory fails that way when
PGSharedMemoryReAttach() execution overlaps with creation of a thread
for the process's "default thread pool".  Fix that by providing a second
region to receive asynchronous allocations that would otherwise intrude
into UsedShmemSegAddr.  In pgwin32_ReserveSharedMemoryRegion(), stop
trying to free reservations landing at incorrect addresses; the caller's
next step has been to terminate the affected process.  Back-patch to 9.4
(all supported versions).

Reviewed by Tom Lane.  He also did much of the prerequisite research;
see commit bcbf2346.

Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/20190402135442.GA1173872@rfd.leadboat.com