Review comments from Andres Freund

* Consolidate code into AfterTriggerGetTransitionTable()
* Rename nodeMerge.c to execMerge.c
* Rename nodeMerge.h to execMerge.h
* Move MERGE handling in ExecInitModifyTable()
  into a execMerge.c ExecInitMerge()
* Move mt_merge_subcommands flags into execMerge.h
* Rename opt_and_condition to opt_merge_when_and_condition
* Wordsmith various comments

Author: Pavan Deolasee
Reviewer: Simon Riggs