Fix handling of NULL host name (possibly by using hostaddr).  It
previously crashed.  Also, we should look at connhost, not pghost, to
handle multi-host specifications.

Also remove an unnecessary SSL_CTX_free().
Reported-by: Jacob Champion <pchampion@vmware.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael Paquier <michael@paquier.xyz>
Discussion: https://www.postgresql.org/message-id/504c276ab6eee000bb23d571ea9b0ced4250774e.camel@vmware.com