Earlier we were inconsistent in allowing the usage of parallel and
full options.  Change it such that we disallow them only when they are
combined in a way that we don't support.

In passing, improve the comments in some of the existing tests of parallel
vacuum.

Reported-by: Tushar Ahuja
Author: Justin Pryzby, Amit Kapila
Reviewed-by: Sawada Masahiko, Michael Paquier, Mahendra Singh Thalor and
Amit Kapila
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/58c8d171-e665-6fa3-a9d3-d9423b694dae%40enterprisedb.com