relation extension lock.

The only exception to the rule is that we can try to acquire the same
relation extension lock more than once.  This is allowed as we are not
creating any new lock for this case.  This restriction implies that the
relation extension lock won't ever participate in the deadlock cycle
because we can never wait for any other heavyweight lock after acquiring
this lock.

Such a restriction is okay for relation extension locks as unlike other
heavyweight locks these are not held till the transaction end.  These are
taken for a short duration to extend a particular relation and then
released.

Author: Dilip Kumar, with few changes by Amit Kapila
Reviewed-by: Amit Kapila, Kuntal Ghosh and Sawada Masahiko
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/CAD21AoCmT3cFQUN4aVvzy5chw7DuzXrJCbrjTU05B+Ss=Gn1LA@mail.gmail.com