Commit 1c2cb274 added some code that tried to detect whether two
RelOptInfos were the "same" rel by pointer comparison; but it turns
out that inheritance_planner breaks that, through its shenanigans
with copying some relations forward into new subproblems.  Compare
relid sets instead.  Add a regression test case to exercise this
area.

Problem reported by Rushabh Lathia; diagnosis and fix by Amit Langote,
modified a bit by me.

Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/CAGPqQf3anJGj65bqAQ9edDr8gF7qig6_avRgwMT9MsZ19COUPw@mail.gmail.com