ProcessTwoPhaseBuffer (formerly StandbyRecoverPreparedTransactions)
mixed up the parent and child XIDs when calling SubTransSetParent to
record the transactions' relationship in pg_subtrans.

Remarkably, analysis by Simon Riggs suggests that this doesn't lead to
visible problems (at least, not in non-Assert builds).  That might
explain why we'd not noticed it before.  Nonetheless, it's surely wrong.

This code was born broken, so back-patch to all supported branches.

Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/20110.1492905318@sss.pgh.pa.us