Move have_partkey_equi_join and match_expr_to_partition_keys to
relnode.c, since they're used only there.  Refactor
build_joinrel_partition_info to split out the code that fills the
joinrel's partition key lists; this doesn't have any non-cosmetic
impact, but it seems like a useful separation of concerns.
Improve assorted nearby comments.

Amit Langote, with a little further editorialization by me

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