Commit a271a1b5 introduced decoding at prepare time in ReorderBuffer.
This can lead to deadlock for out-of-core logical replication solutions
that uses this feature to build distributed 2PC in case such transactions
lock [user] catalog tables exclusively. They need to inform users to not
have locks on catalog tables (via explicit LOCK command) in such
transactions.

Reported-by: Andres Freund
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/20210222222847.tpnb6eg3yiykzpky@alap3.anarazel.de